ADIOS SPAGNA!

For once in my life I will try to be serious because it is now time to leave Spain and to slingshot to Germany, actually catapulting to Frankfurt could be a great idea so we should not have to deal with the Spanish accessible taxi again.. will see!

Madrid was also a great city to visit, very different from Valencia and Barcelona but still amazing to tour. The roads were a bit older than in the previous cities and the pavel was made of cobble stone which was great as a stimulator for Jessie’s and mine bicipes but a bit less for Charles’ gluteal muscles! Having said that,  I think we managed quite well except from a couple of small , little, meaningless,  tiny details that we will omit. Just remember one thing about Madrid, this city is very hilly so if you are on a wheelchair and a drunk person is pushing you, make sure that you both decide to go in the same direction..that is it..simple as that!

However, in the first line I said I was going to try to be serious and I will try to concentrate on it although it is veeeeery difficult! Honestly, I think it is now time to focus on some reflections because  this should also be part of the trip and although times really flies it is important also to stop and carefully listen to ourselves.

Well, if I meditate just now after almost 10 days and I ask to myself: “ if I could have a magic wand and be able to do anything during this trip, would I change something?” The answer would certainly be: “YES”, there are many and many things that will come up to my mind, MANY, but unfortunately I do not have this magic power! So if I rationally watch myself in the mirror and repeat and modify this question and say: “For what is within my power, if I could do something to make this trip better, would I change something?”  the answer is “NO”! Because I honestly can’t think about something that we could do differently, “no matter” what the obstacles can be, the problem, the frustrations, the limitations, we are doing it and we are actually doing it well!Yes guys because we are here, right now, in the middle of this dream that has now become true, fulfilling all the sensations that we have postponed for too long and we saw practically that this is possible and is real!

So let’s focus on this, let’s focus on what WE CAN DO and forget about what WE CAN’T DO  because we are living or maybe I should say leaving now and although we can’t change the past,  we have now only two options:  ruining the present by worrying for how our future will be  or concentrating on what is actually beautiful about what we still have got, because happiness is a choice, life is a choice and it is now time to shift to what we can control! So I do not know about which option you picked, but  I do know that I personally do not have time for option number 1! NOT TODAY.. Yes, because is now time to go to pack and shout: “Adios España und WILLKOMMEN IN DEUTSCHLAND!”

#NOT TODAY-NOR TOMORROW!!

 

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10 Things we have learned during our 3 days in Valencia

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1)  Sangria is great

2) Valencia is one of the most wheelchair accessible city I have seen with great footpaths all flat, elevators everywhere, pretty much all accessible cafes and restaurant, Museums, buses, accessible taxi. However, the train station needs more accessible services (there is not even an office where people with disability can go and ask information, and from our experience today they did not have proper ramp that fit in the intercity train) BIG ADVICE: if you need to catch a train in Valencia, arrange in advance and request days before the departure “special assistance”  because yes YOU ARE SPECIAL!!

4) Sangria is great

5) When travelling with a wheelchair and searching for accommodation you need to make sure not only about:

the size of the room, the shower which has to be wide and totally flat with a wide entrance with a large door screen or curtain. Also double check  that the rooms have aircon, handheld showerhead, a fridge if you need special medications to be kept refrigerated, the absence of carpet on the floor, but also if there is enough space under the bed if you need to use a hoist (these things are just lessons  we have learned in a short period time!) Finally, do not hesitate to ask also the height of the toilet seat! Send an email to the Hotels (prepare the same one and just copy and paste) and ask them to send photos, videos and all the information you need. This step is very important and you do not want surprises when you have checked-in already!

Many accessible rooms have a high toilet seat to facilitate people with limited movement functions, but if you have a permanent disability like a spinal cord injury and you need to access the toilet seat with a shower chair then the seats has to be low, so yes always ask also about this technical detail and make sure there are no obstacles between the toilet seat and the wall!  All  the modern accessible rooms nowadays should be built following a standard however, the “world of the disabilities” is soooooo huge and different that the needs are personal . Therefore, it is important to speak up, in order to minimize all the issues that travelling with a disability can  present and also make sure that if we had a bad experience we can make  a claim and hopefully help other people in a similar situation to have a better experience (Jessie are you ready for the next letter?)

6) Repeat number 3

7) There is no number 3

8) You have just checked if number 3 was there

9) You are laughing thinking I am a clown, which I am

10) Memorize these light and diplomatic expressions that might be very handy if somebody is not willing to help and is a nonsense: (please choose also your anger level)

ANGRY: “Eres tonto o peinas calvos?” (Are you stupid or you comb people with bold hair?)

VERY ANGRY: “Eres tan feo que desde que te naciste ya no se volvieron a hacer experimentos con las ratas” (You are so ugly that since you were born they stopped doing experiments on the mice)

VERY VERY ANGRY:“Vete a chuparla” no need to know the translation and better not searching on Google  the real meaning because you might end up in an adult website!

BARCELONA HERE WE COME!

Travel itinerary

Creating and organizing an itinerary for a trip can be veeeeeery tiring (am I right Charles?) but once that you start filling the gaps and give a shape to your wish list it is  a great sensation! Just be realistic, think logically, understand if for this trip your priority is the budget or the effectiveness,  but for me the most important tip is  to allow yourself all the time you need to be FLEXIBLE, because personally I think that the trip is freedom and even if I have an itinerary to follow, I will never be able to pass a recommendation from a local who I have met on the road, especially if it is food-related and we were supposed to go to a Museum! Noooway!!!

So here is our solid trip:

11/06/2019-14/06/2019 Valencia, Spain

14/06/2019-18/06/2019 Barcelona, Spain

18/06/2019-21/06/2019 Madrid, Spain

21/06/2019-23/06/2019 Frankfurt, Germany

23/06/2019-26/06/2019 Cologne, Germany

26/06/2019-30/06/2019 Berlin, Germany

30/06/2019-4/07/2019 Prague, Czech Republic

4/07/2019-7/07/2019 Vienna, Austria

7/07/2019-11/07/2019 Budapest, Hungary

11/07/2019-14/07/2019 Venice, Italy

14/07/2019-17/07/2019 Milan, Italy

17/07/2019-20/07/2019 Bologna, Italy

20/07/2019-25/07/2019 Florence, Italy

25/07/2019-29/07/2019 Rome, Italy

It is going to be very intense but we are young (at least we feel like it), free and we are on a lifetime holiday, so lets just keep it simple and enjoy every single moment!